Wednesday, November 20, 2019

THE MAGIC WORDS (LIFE SAVER)

                THE MAGIC WORDS
                      (LIFE SAVER)


Yeah!  its magical but not abracadabra
Words are powerful!
Words are used to communicate ideas and feelings. However, bad communication attracts abusive response.
There are some 5 magic words everyone should know and learn to use always.It’s quite unfortunate that as simple as these words are, people find it difficult to say them when the need arises.
This 5 magic words when not said when they are needed has led many to Death,Hatred,unending Quarrels,Disputes,Broken relationships and marriages etc.
And when these words are said at the right time its a life saver.
This 5 magic words have saved a lot of people.The words bring about peaceful coexistence between two people, it Shows politeness ,Humility, integrity, and shows your true manners.

The First Magic Word Is
1) PLEASE

A magic word to use when in need of something from someone
A magic word which shows and depicts a humble person in a quest for something.
Some people have been denied access to something or someone just because this magic word wasn’t used.
Life would have been a bit easier if everyone was to learn how to use this word.
The rate of rejection would be reduced if this word was used in request cases.Rarely will you find someone who rejected a request from someone who used the word “please”. It's a magic word that melts the heart of the giver.The word 'please' should be used appropriately used and heartly meant not please naaa (that could be provoking )Do not abuse the use of it.


2. 'SORRY/I'M SORRY'

This is the mother of all magical words which can be used in all situation. It melts the heart of an aggressive opponent, saves people from harm, showcases humility ,maturity and solves most problems.
Too bad many people find it difficult to say the word sorry, perhaps they think saying it brings down their status in the sight of others or makes them inferior to the other fellow. No, this is not so. Sorry is a word of apology, it indicates acceptance of a fault and apologizing to the affected person. This word can bring peace during conflict. Its a life saver.

3. THANK YOU

This is  used to appreciate a favour or help. Forgetting to use this word  makes a person feels unappreciated and kills the potential of getting another favour from such person next time.This is because it’s human nature that we want to be appreciated. No matter how little the favour is, it’s essential for the beneficiary to say “thank you”.
 It encourages the doer of the favour.Always use this word to show that you are appreciative that you value what you have been given.

4. EXCUSE ME

This is a polite word that can get one out of trouble, it also shows respect and regard for others. For instance, when you are to pick a phone call in a meeting or in the company of friends, by simply saying ” excuse me” makes the people around feel important.
This word brings about peaceful and humble co-existence between you and any other person out in a public.
Not like we all don’t know when to use this word, its just that some people decides not to use it  maybe because they don’t see its essence.
Using it makes you sound more matured and learned. it works like magic.
Not using this word at a time you are meant to or using the harsher version of it. could bring about conflict, troubles and disputes.

5. PARDON ME

 This is a magic word  used after accepting a fault of mistake. It is used after being sorry for a particular misdeed or wrong.When you are on the  wrong side and you are being remorseful , this magic word can help give access to forgiveness. Forgiveness is easier when mistake has been accepted.

Words are powerful
Words can kill
Words can heal
Words can provoke the heart
Words can melt the heart
Using the right word at the right time makes life easier and relationship stronger.
Use the magic words rightly!

5 comments:

Unknown said...

Thanks for bringing the 5magic words to the public notice Nimigold, If the self in us can be humbled, yes we can co-habit peacefully.

Unknown said...

I really appreciate God in ur life.excellent lesson learnt.
Awesome write-up.

nimisdiaryonline said...

Thanks for reading

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Thanks for dropping by

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Big thanks

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