It's a new BEGINNING

 

You need no permission to shine

You are the light 

You are a light that can never go dim

Nimigold! 

Queen of delight 

Clothe with strength and dignity

Full of confidence and lacks nothing of value 

You are the best of your kind

Welcome to a new beginning

Happy birthday TAIWO TOLUWANIMI ROSEMARY aka NIMIGOLD

Suicide!
Going through pains, shame, depression, dejection and the last thing on your mind is SUICIDE.
Oh no I can't take this anymore, this is too much for me too bear, i need a better life, I'm  the worst, things are not getting better, I can't face this shame, I'm too poor to be happy  and so on. And all you think about is the way out ,SUICIDE?

No! Suicide won't end your pain or shame it only pushes the pain and shame to the hearts of those who love you.

You can't take your life because you feel it's the best option. No!
That life is just too precious. See, there are millions of people in the hospital all over the world fighting to live, some are poor,rich,orphans,or even famous.
Their silent prayer everyday is oh God, save me from death,i still wanna live. They are fighting hard to live.
And here you are thinking of how to take you take your life?

It is true that you are going through a lot. I understand your pain and shame but think of those beautiful moments in your life. Those ones you enjoyed most when you smiled freely and the happiness all around you. Think about the lives connected to you.Those who look up to you as a source of inspiration.

Everyone goes through one struggle or the other. But the beautiful part of it is when we smile and tell a better story.
Don't let the devil get into your head. Don't let suicide be an option in your life.
Speak to someone ,let out your feelings. Don't keep it all to yourself. Be positive tough times never last,it will definitely slide.
God has great plans for you. You just need to live and activate God's plan. A dead man is dead forever.
You are still alive because something good is on the way.Give your life a chance to live and see how things turn around for good.

Speak to someone today
Share your emotions and thoughts
Say no to SUICIDE!



#saynotosuicide
#sayyestolife

Hurray 💃💃💃  relationship cafe is here again in a grand style and you wouldn't wanna miss this.
Relationship cafe is a programme that gathers Young Minds from all spheres of life to understand their true value, uphold dignity and moral standards at its peak.
Relationship cafe unveils the pitfalls of relationships that affects us psychologically, physically and emotionally  which can devastate  one's existence.

Our maiden edition was superb  which was mainly for ladies which includes the single ladies and married  but this year's edition is going to be great as it is targeted towards singles -Ladies and gentlemen.The theme for this year's Relationship Café is : Relationship and GENO-STATUS. A lot of homes are crumbling, divorce is no longer a big deal. Couples end up with regrets wishing they had discovered a lot in their relationship before going to the altar to say I do. This is more reason why every single lady and guy out there should endeavor to be part of this awesome program. You can't afford to have a failed marriage.

This is a rare opportunity
Invite your spouse and loved ones to be part of this
Don't make a costly mistake you will live to regret

Join us Jan 25th,2020 on relationship café
Theme: Relationship and GENO-STATUS
Time: 11am
Venue : whatsap
Guest Speaker : Dr Babatunde Jesusina
Medical Doctor
Author Oracle for the day
Host: Nimigold

To join conversation send REGRC to 08130679278 or follow link https://chat.whatsapp.com/8UDyVoCdYyHFiEURVxZYjC
STRICTLY FOR SINGLES 🤗

For participation : Free Recharge Cards and free Consultation 💃💃

#relationshipcafe2020

HOW TO STOP PROCRASTINATING

PROCRASTINATION

It’s no surprise that procrastination is a productivity killer.
Procrastination keeps people from completing important tasks. If you aren’t taking action then you are falling behind.

Procrastination is one of the main barriers blocking you from getting up, making the right decisions and living the dream life you've thought of.

Procrastination is an active process, you choose to do something else instead of the task that you know you should be doing.
Procrastination usually involves ignoring an unpleasant, but likely more important task, in favor of one that is more enjoyable or easier.

HOW TO STOP PROCRASTINATING

1. Do a breakdown of your work
Part of the reason why we procrastinate is because subconsciously, we find the work too overwhelming for us. Break it down into little parts, then focus on one part at the time. If you still procrastinate on the task after breaking it down, then break it down even further. Soon, your task will be so simple that you will realize how simple it is.

2. Change Your  Environment
Different environments have different impact on us. An environment that makes us feel inspired before may lose its effect after a period of time. If that’s the case, then it’s time to change.

3. Create a Detailed Timeline with Specific Deadlines
Having just 1 deadline for your work is like an invitation to procrastinate. That’s because we get the impression that we have time and keep pushing everything back, until it’s too late.

 4. Hang out with People Who Inspire You to Take Action
Identify the people, friends or colleagues who trigger you – most likely the go-getters and hard workers – and hang out with them more often. Soon you will inculcate their drive and spirit too.

5. Get rid of distractions
It’s important to rid yourself of all potential disruptions before you begin working so you don’t get needlessly sidetracked halfway through your task. If you tend to spend too much time on Snapchat or Instagram when you should be studying, then shut your phone off ( all the way off). Distractions could also be external sources, like annoying siblings.Stay away from all forms of distractions.

We are all guilty of procrastinating at some point or other; no one is a stranger to it. Some of us are just lucky enough to identify it in time and still do something about it.
Unfortunately for others, it steals dreams and can even destroy lives.
Procrastination eats up your  precious time leaving you with regrets.
Do what you need to do today,never procrastinate.
Why procrastinate when you can do it right away

Say no to procrastination!

THE MAGIC WORDS (LIFE SAVER)

                THE MAGIC WORDS
                      (LIFE SAVER)

Yeah!  its magical but not abracadabra
Words are powerful!
Words are used to communicate ideas and feelings. However, bad communication attracts abusive response.
There are some 5 magic words everyone should know and learn to use always.It’s quite unfortunate that as simple as these words are, people find it difficult to say them when the need arises.
This 5 magic words when not said when they are needed has led many to Death,Hatred,unending Quarrels,Disputes,Broken relationships and marriages etc.
And when these words are said at the right time its a life saver.
This 5 magic words have saved a lot of people.The words bring about peaceful coexistence between two people, it Shows politeness ,Humility, integrity, and shows your true manners.

The First Magic Word Is
1) PLEASE

A magic word to use when in need of something from someone
A magic word which shows and depicts a humble person in a quest for something.
Some people have been denied access to something or someone just because this magic word wasn’t used.
Life would have been a bit easier if everyone was to learn how to use this word.
The rate of rejection would be reduced if this word was used in request cases.Rarely will you find someone who rejected a request from someone who used the word “please”. It's a magic word that melts the heart of the giver.The word 'please' should be used appropriately used and heartly meant not please naaa (that could be provoking )Do not abuse the use of it.


2. 'SORRY/I'M SORRY'

This is the mother of all magical words which can be used in all situation. It melts the heart of an aggressive opponent, saves people from harm, showcases humility ,maturity and solves most problems.
Too bad many people find it difficult to say the word sorry, perhaps they think saying it brings down their status in the sight of others or makes them inferior to the other fellow. No, this is not so. Sorry is a word of apology, it indicates acceptance of a fault and apologizing to the affected person. This word can bring peace during conflict. Its a life saver.

3. THANK YOU

This is  used to appreciate a favour or help. Forgetting to use this word  makes a person feels unappreciated and kills the potential of getting another favour from such person next time.This is because it’s human nature that we want to be appreciated. No matter how little the favour is, it’s essential for the beneficiary to say “thank you”.
 It encourages the doer of the favour.Always use this word to show that you are appreciative that you value what you have been given.

4. EXCUSE ME

This is a polite word that can get one out of trouble, it also shows respect and regard for others. For instance, when you are to pick a phone call in a meeting or in the company of friends, by simply saying ” excuse me” makes the people around feel important.
This word brings about peaceful and humble co-existence between you and any other person out in a public.
Not like we all don’t know when to use this word, its just that some people decides not to use it  maybe because they don’t see its essence.
Using it makes you sound more matured and learned. it works like magic.
Not using this word at a time you are meant to or using the harsher version of it. could bring about conflict, troubles and disputes.

5. PARDON ME

 This is a magic word  used after accepting a fault of mistake. It is used after being sorry for a particular misdeed or wrong.When you are on the  wrong side and you are being remorseful , this magic word can help give access to forgiveness. Forgiveness is easier when mistake has been accepted.

Words are powerful
Words can kill
Words can heal
Words can provoke the heart
Words can melt the heart
Using the right word at the right time makes life easier and relationship stronger.
Use the magic words rightly!

DILAPIDATED NATURE OF SANGO OTA HIGH SCHOOL

This is so disheartening!
Is this the free education ogun state promised our students
Sango Ota High School  (sango ota, along ijoko road, ogun state) is in a serious state
Dilapidated structures
Bad chalkboards
Unavailable chairs and tables for the students

This is so inhumane, how can Ogun state govt leave our dear students to sit on the bare floor.
Over 1000 students are left with no choice than to sit on the bare floor despite the collection of development levy from the students

This is a big shame to Ogun State Educational
 system
Where is Ogun State Minister of Education ?
Where is the Governor of Ogun State ?
This is not a conducive environment for learning
We won't keep quiet until the situation gets better

Beauty is character

Good looks are important but without a good character such looks could seem disgusting.
A person who is beautiful and have no positive character condemns his/her beauty. Character
is the substance that enrich the mind and soul.
Beauty is just a mere quality that fades away any time.

Some ladies believes that the moment they are attractive or by enhancing  their looks with enough make-up, nice dress, beautiful hair style, lovely shoes or designer hand bags they are good enough for any man.Naa! it doesn't work that way.

Have you ever wondered why most beautiful single ladies walk up and down single and desperately looking for husband or eager to get married.
Many beautiful ladies out there are still single because of their bad character.

Every man wants a good woman for a wife.Guys can date mannerless beautiful ladies , but would never want to marry a lady with bad character .Its not just beauty that is needed to keep a home,character is needed.
Have you ever seen a beautiful woman that stays beautiful forever? Check out your great grandma, grandma and your mother its hard to see that ever young and beautiful face in them. They were once like you.

 Your character is your beauty, so if you have a positive character then you are extremely beautiful. The way you treat people, the way you approach people, the way you handle issues are what defines your character which is your beauty.
That which is inside is more valuable than that which is outside. It is the inner beauty that matters.

Character is the inner beauty. What is inside is much more beautiful than what is outside.If you are a quarrelsome person who causes trouble wherever you find yourself, people can not associate with you even if you are a beauty like a Cinderella on the outside.

While Beauty fades character stays.So while you care much about your beauty work on your character and develop good attitude.
Beauty doesnt lasts forever but a beautiful character does!